Reader Reviews of Solve the Divorce Dilemma

Great gift of enlightenment! Must read again!

One of the many things I love about this excellent book is that so much of it pertains to life in general, not just a difficult time such as divorce. This author provides a resource to help others traverse the oftentimes difficult road of life, to learn how to forgive and move past the trying times to come out a winner! She shows practical, easy-to-understand ways to learn how to heal yourself, accept and love yourself. After reading this, you will come out transformed, empowered, and ready to conquer your challenges! Strongly urge everyone, divorce or not, to read Solve the Divorce Dilemma.

Fabulous resource for those dealing with marriage difficulties or divorce. Very empowering!

This is an excellent resource for anyone going through a difficult time in their marriage. With the author you will find a soul sister that’s there to support you and encourage you. The advice, exercises and stories are told by someone who’s been there. Through exercises, meditation, journaling and visualization you will become clear on what you want and where you’re going. Lots of great advice to empower you through this difficult time and to come out stronger than ever – ready to face the challenge and your new, exciting life.

Struggling in your marriage?

Solve the Divorce Dilemma by Sonia Frontera, covers an important topic that many women struggle with at some point in their life – whether it is possible to repair a marriage or if it is destined to end. Are you on the fence regarding your marriage? Then this book is for you.

This is not the same type of book as you would usually find to discuss the topic of divorce. Instead of a cold, scientific account, Sonia helps the reader to navigate the delicate waters of salvaging a marriage. However, if you discover that divorce is the right option for you, you will also find a warm shoulder to help you navigate through the steps of ending your marriage gracefully.

A roadmap to happiness

Sonia Frontera’s book, Solve the Divorce Dilemma, is your personal GPS to a happier, healthier life. Filled with practical advice and exercises, Sonia guides the reader on a gentle journey of self-awareness. Her guide is eminently doable. By following her well laid out plan and investing some time in self reflection, you are guaranteed to become a more self aware person, one who is better suited to make a more informed, less emotional decision about the state of your marriage. Whether you choose to stay or go; you will do so with the tools that will serve you in all aspects of your life. A must read for all who want to be their authentic elves either alone, or in a strong and healthy marriage.

A balanced and thoughtful book

I found this book to be immensely helpful. It helps you consider all aspects of your marriage, good and bad. It is not simply a handbook about how to get out of your marriage, but more a guide to self-discovery. What is it about you that brought you to this unhappy place in the first place? Whether you choose to divorce or remain married, this book will help you find your voice and power so that you can live your best life. Highly recommend!

As a psychologist working with high conflict families, Solve the Divorce Dilemma offers a positive and constructive way to face the challenges in one’s marital relationship. Why wait until your relationship becomes unbearable when you can take the good advice in this book to care and empower yourself? Share this book with friends in your book club, support group and leave it on the desk of your co-worker who is struggling with the partner they love. Open the book up today and see that there are more options rather than “just putting up with it” or abandoning your marriage altogether

Powerful advice to assess yourself and your relationship

I love this book! It is inspirational, full of wisdom and tenderness. My first impression was that I was sitting down with a friend trying to problem-solve my life over a cup of tea. The approach to the dilemma is both gentle and practical. The exercises help the reader assess themselves, their spouse and the situation leading to help to find solutions. This book is a treasure of ideas for finding paths around obstacles and setting goals to achieve happiness and freedom. There are great quotes from other writers and the resources in this book are a treasure.

Life experience always speaks volumes

Do You Keep Your Husband or Do You Post Him on Craigslist? Is a practical read for those struggling through a difficult marriage and standing at the crossroad of ‘restore or walk’. The author writes from a personal life experience perspective and offers valuable direction and resources to the reader. As a Family Life Counselor with a MA and Pastor’s Wife title I heartily recommend this book for anyone in a troubled marriage.

A real plan to change your life

I was pulled in by the title – as most women I feel annoyed by my husband every now and then, and wonder whether life would be better on my own. But as I started to read, I realized that this book is more than a fun title. It really contains valuable information for women who are in bad situations. Many times they are so paralyzed by fear of what happens next, that they are not able to take the necessary steps to leave and move forward. If you are in this position, this book will take you by the hand and help you make the transition. Its key message of “You are worthy. You can do this. You deserve so much better,” will be life to many women who are ready to hear those words.

Heartfelt read

The author clearly is sharing her story but in such a way as to bring in the reader and have the reader relate to the topics. Anyone that is going through or went through a divorce, separation or the like, can relate to this book and also get inspiration that life does go on, and happily. I would highly recommend reading this.

Great insight and practical advice

This gem of a book is a wonderful guide not only for those contemplating divorce, but for those contemplating marriage. It is also a must read for those who want to reaffirm their marriage. Sonia Frontera lovingly shares great insight and practical advice.

I am happily married for 7 years now. I am just curious about this book that’s why I’ve purchased it. This book covers the real-life situation of married couples, the struggles of being married, whether to save or get out of it. But most importantly, what I love in this book is about self-discovery, bits of advice on how to be happy, learn how to forgive, how to heal, and love yourself. There are also a free workbook and printable affirmations. I Will recommend this book to my friends who are struggling with their marriage. Thank you for sharing your experiences as well.

Great read! Best advice on divorce so far!

I am definitely one that is “walking the fence” with my marriage and relationship. For years, I have been going back and forth in my head about staying, leaving, divorce, the kids and being happy. Sonia has put in words what I have been contemplating for years, and has helped me put everything in perspective. I appreciate the sound advice and for giving me insight and clarity. Although I have made no definitive decision, I now have a guideline and information if I decide to go through the divorce procedure, and what to expect before, during and after. I also like the thought process outline. When you are in the thick of indecision and confusion, it is hard to think rationally, especially when you are thinking with your emotions. Thank you, again, for the empowerment and advice, and giving me hope and acceptance of my situation. Highly recommend!!

An eye opener!

A wonderful book full of great advice from beginning to end. The author helps you create self-awareness so you can assess your situation in a clear way. I feel this book is relevant to everyone regardless of your situation. I would have loved to have had this help many years ago when I was going through my divorce. Either way, I really enjoyed reading this book and would highly recommend it. This is the kind of book you want to keep handy to review again and again.

If you don’t know if you should stay married: read this book

This book is a lighthouse shining through the fog of confusion when a marriage goes go south. Well written and easy to read the book takes you through three key steps: Get clear, Get strong, Get out. Each step cuts away confusion and doubt helping you decide the future of your marriage. What stands out is the section,”So he’s a keeper after all.” This brings balance to the craziness that can be happening.
Who should read this book: Everyone in a marriage crisis, male and female. Invest a few dollars and a couple of hours now to change your life for the better.

Read this book to take back your power, truly excel and improve your life whether you stay or go

This is a thorough and well-written guide that will help anyone dealing with complications and experiences in a relationship which indicate that they are at a point where they need to make a change for the better. The unbiased perspective provided (not anti-male, relationship, or marriage but pro self love and empowerment) makes this book a refreshing addition to my library. The author provides insight from her personal perspective and approaches the book with love, like a sister guiding someone through who may be confused, scared, and perhaps new to the possibility of ending a committed relationship. I especially love the focus on the self and the uplifting element which can help the reader whether she chooses to stay or go. I love that it’s authentic and does not jump on the current ‘self-love’ bandwagon. It seems genuine and heartfelt. The added bonus is that the author is a lawyer and comes from a place of empathy and advocacy on the side of the reader. Because of this she provides great advice about how to choose a good lawyer and the rights of the person seeking legal help. I have been through the divorce process myself, experienced abuse and felt trapped. I came through it all alone and I can see how valuable a resource this could be for anyone who feels lost or trapped.